10 July 2010

Good things happen with planning!

As my friend Ellen pointed out to me today, I'm living an amazing life, so I should stop screwing it up with stress! It's possible that she fears my physical destruction with the constant travelling, having a family, earning a doctorate, working full time (remotely) and now starting a consultancy. I too see some possible disasterous endings to this scenario, but I believe some well placed strategies will make this work. The nice thing is that everything feeds each other, which is the first strategy. Many of my ideas for both the consultancy and my work as a director of online education is fed directly from my required research for the doctorate in the very field for which I'm working. Also, taking one small step at a time with the consultancy is an important strategy, but a name, philosophy and experience is needed in preparation for the eventual work I want to enter.

Bottom line with this story is that good things happen, especially when you work it. Now I just have to manage it. A few things I've successfully learned through the last five years that brought me to this point of satisfaction and excitment in my career:
  1. Choose a field that you feel reasonates with your personality, passion and long term goals.
  2. Choose a degree in that field that is either very classic or very new. There are a lot of 'tired' trendy degrees out there.
  3. Make sure that the job you want is not only in demand now, but going to be more in demand in the future. This requires understanding the big picture of that industry and impact the economy will have on it, ie, education is an industry that does well in recession.
  4. Think about the target audience or group that you'll have to work with - are you a face to face person or somebody behind the scenes? Make sure your goals fit that personality.
  5. Keep abreast of publications and try to get involved with professional groups within that field.
  6. Network the crap out of contacts!

As you can see, this requires some upfront thinking and reflection, but it's never too late to find what fulfills you. I've seen so many successful people in careers they love who started completely over in mid-life. What you did before or do now cannot be a waste because you carry those experiences and knowledge into whatever field you wish to enter.

03 July 2010

Good God...

There are some days where winning seems so unlikely that you wonder if you should fight it out or just give up and hide. Since tire drama with my MiniCooper caused the cancellation of a trip to Michigan a few months back, it seems only ridiculously appropriate in some sick Fate's mind that tire trouble rears it's ugly head just as I head out to Chicago for a long weekend. While thinking the indicator light for a low tire would be simply adding air, the gigantic gash in the sidewall told me otherwise. It would be difficult to fully express my disgust as the dealership was closed and the rental agency was closed for the holidays. It is also difficult to exactly determine if the offer of the 10 year old pick-up was a good thing or a very bad omen, but I had chosen to fight it out and took the offer.

With tears threatening to ruin my make-up, I control myself as I move my bags from my adorable and zippy MiniCooper that is perfectly suited for Chicago... to the large and not so exciting pick up truck that is perfectly ill-suited for Chicago. Let's just say it's parked and will not be requested until I leave. Taxis suddenly seem attractive.

Before we can at least celebrate the fact that I made it to Chicago though, we have the lovely little pull-over drama where the cop decided the taillight being out was a national crisis. While the verbal warning was a relief, I was not pleased as the entire incident could have been avoided if the dude had a grip on life. The final act that did require touching up the make-up after tears was when the alterations shoppe that is always open on Saturdays was closed for the FREAKING HOLIDAYS. Seriously people, shoot off some fireworks and eat a hotdog, but what is with the entire country shutting down? So of course my newly hemmed Burberry dress was not a wardrobe option for Chicago, which was probably the most upsetting.

I don't know though. Losing the Cooper AND the Burberry dress for the Chicago getaway? I'm only human.